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So, we are looking to bump up the time and commitment a bit, she's read a bit about houseboys, personal slaves, etc, and we're both doing a little research as to how pro dommes do this kind of thing. Loosely speaking, we're talking about me going to her place, doing whatever chores she ass cleaning, serve lunch, give her massages, punish me if she wants, whateverthis is focused on her whims rather than my session needs.
Or do you prefer to leave that open-ended -- he agrees to do whatever she asks, with no agreement of what he gets out of it? So, some questions: - When you've done this, has perdonal slave paid for this, even though he's say cleaning her house or dungeon, running her errands, etc.
I've been reading a bit about this, and would like to hear from dommes and clients if they've been on either side of this type of arrangement. We discussed what sort of tasks he had experience with and how I would utilize sslave, as well as how much time he would spend at my place during each session.
I've read as much as I could on the web, while this forum was down. He became my houseboy after posting on FetLife that he was available and looking to personao put to use.
This is new to both of us, and we're both loving it. I have been sessioning with a very new domme, and we've been doing some out-of-session play I first met him slzve few years ago when he was installing some new light fixtures at Pavlovia's dungeon. He simply wanted to be put to work by a beautiful woman and I had plenty of work for him to do.
No money is exchanged, that was never part of the arrangement. I found everything from "the persknal comes to serve me and work, he stays clothed at all times so he won't get distracted, and when he's done, he leaves" that is, pure service focused to "the slave gets naked as soon as he walks in the door, gets punished for every mistake he makes" that one sounds to me like she's paying him so much attention that it's just like a regular sessionto everything in between, and some where the slave pays for this privilege, some where he doesn't.
He never knows what I have planned for him when he arrives, but this is a list peersonal chores that I've made do so far: - sweep. I'm less interested in what "houseboy" or "personal slave" technically mean, as much as I'm looking for arrangements that worked, of this general sort.
We plan to keep up our regular paid sessions, the houseboy type arrangement or whatever we'll call it will be separate. We'll willing to blaze our own path, but would like to learn from everybody else's best practices and mistakes!